It’s that time of year when gift guides are everywhere. But what most moms need isn’t more “stuff,” but rather gifts that help them do the thing they almost always struggle with: self-care.
In putting together this guide, I surveyed a significant number of mothers and asked myself which gifts would benefit me the most after just having my third child. This list is a collection of ideas that can inspire any gift giver looking for a mom, whether she just had her first or is a seasoned professional.
1. Cleaning services
This was the number one request from every mother I spoke to: a cleaner house. Whether you donate your own time to deep clean the bathroom or hire a professional service to deep clean areas or do a weekly clean, the gift of a cleaner home will make most moms happy every day of the year.
2. Aromatherapy
Do you know a mother who is stressed? Tired? Dazed? Aromatherapy is a great way to give a lasting boost. A nice oil diffuser with some favorite essential oil blends can be just the spa day aroma every mom needs without ever leaving the house. Try lavender or jasmine for go-to blends that are light, refreshing and relaxing.
3. Self-care supplements
Who wouldn’t want a bottle of Liquid Bliss? Or a dose of Serious Relaxer? Moms who want to stick to natural medicine will benefit from a self-care kit filled with natural herbal supplements from WishGarden Herbs.
4. Massage
Besides headaches, back pain was the most common complaint from mothers I spoke with. A full body or back massage would make a great sustainable gift for the mother in your life.
5. Face masks
Fatigue, stress, and lack of time for self-care can all make us look (and feel) older than we want. An at-home facial mask kit can be the perfect way to get the feeling of a spa day without having to figure out the logistics of actually getting there. Better yet, give mom a few hours of child-free time to enjoy some quiet time at home while enjoying a face mask.
6. Coffee subscription
Is the mom you know a coffee lover? Give her the gift of coffee, delivered regularly. Coffee subscriptions come in all varieties and are a great way for a coffee connoisseur to enjoy new blends from the comfort of home. Add a great French press, Chemex or other coffee brewer too!
7.Mani/Pedi
I love it when my nails look nice, but with three children aged four and under, I don’t have the time or flexibility to get regular manicures or pedicures. Give your mom the gift of a mani/pedi day And Arrange childcare so she doesn’t have to!
8. Thrive market membership
Thrive Market is a great way to get pantry items, household items, and a variety of other goods delivered to your door for much less. A Thrive membership has saved time, headaches, and money, and in the age of grocery pickup and delivery, it’s a great option.
9. Book: Memory-Making Mom by Jessica Smartt
If the mom you’re buying for is sentimental or a fan of tradition, this book is sweet and fun and a great way to inspire her in what she does best: loving children. If she’s a book lover, a gift card for books is also a win/win.
10. Homemade meals
Do you like cooking? Offering to take dinner off her plate on a semi-regular basis is a wonderful way to give a gift that keeps on giving, is sustainable, and keeps costs down. Plus, for anyone with a love language of service, this is a double win.
11. Groceries delivered
If you know a mom who has small children, works full-time, or otherwise hates grocery shopping, the gift of grocery delivery can not only save time but also simplify the weekly routine on a regular basis. This truly is the gift that keeps on giving. Try services like HelloFresh or Blue Apron.
12. Club Membership
Costco, Sam’s, BJ’s and similar stores offer great convenience to moms, but a stumbling block for some is having to pay for a membership just to get through the door. Offer her membership as a gift by having her register. A gift certificate for her first day of shopping is also a nice way to get the ball rolling.
13. Acupuncture
As good as massage for relaxation, and a wonderful way to tackle headaches, stress, sleep problems and more, acupuncture is the perfect gift for any mother. If she’s never tried it before, she might feel a little hesitant, but from someone who was initially nervous, acupuncture is now my favorite relaxation therapy ever.
14. Wardrobe update
Does the mother you love love fashion? Give her the gift of a membership to StitchFix or other similar sites that offer both wardrobe variety and convenience.
15. Babysitting
And last but not least, give the mother in your life what most of us want/need: time. Whether it’s alone time, time to work, time to clean or time to sleep, every mother wanted more of it somehow. Whether you babysit the kids yourself or provide a professional service, giving her time to reconnect with her partner, re-energize her inner introverted spirit, or nourish her sleep-deprived soul is a gift that you truly can’t beat. can set up.
Writer Aimee McNew has a master’s degree in Holistic Nutrition Therapy (MNT) and is also a Certified Practitioner of Nutrition Therapy (CNTP).
For educational purposes only. This information has not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This information is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease, or to sell any product.
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