Let’s talk cock rings. If you’re into penises, either your own or someone else’s, you know they can add a whole new level of intensity to play. At FemmeFunn, we’re all about that. Now, you might be thinking, “Alright, but how do I actually put on a cock ring?” Fair question! Before we get into all the fun stuff, let’s make sure we’re doing it right. We’ll walk you through the basics so you can enjoy all the benefits safely and comfortably.
What is a cock ring?
Essentially, cock rings, or as they’re also sometimes called, c-rings or penis-rings, work by slightly restricting blood from flowing in and out of the wearer’s penis. That word “slightly” is key. A well-made cock ring is engineered to maximize pleasure without causing discomfort. However, like any sex toy, there are important factors to consider when choosing and using one, which we’ll get into shortly.
What does a cock ring do?
When worn correctly, cock rings can do wonders for achieving and maintaining erections, delaying ejaculation, and decreasing penile sensitivity, which is why they’re also frequently recommended by sexual health experts as a way to cope with periodic bouts of erectile dysfunction.
But remember, you and your body are unique, so while cock rings function the same for everyone, what they do for you may vary. Still, considering how little cock rings tend to cost and how much of a blast they can be, we heartily recommend giving them a try.
Types of Cock Rings
Sometimes it feels like there are about as many different types of cock rings as there are cocks eager to start wearing them. Fortunately, we’re here to make everything a whole lot easier by breaking them down into the following four basic styles:
💋 Soft and stretchy: These cock rings are typically made of body-safe, hypoallergenic silicone or latex and come in a range of sizes, making them an ideal choice for anyone interested in exploring the myriad delights cock rings may provide (beginners included!).
💋 Metal: Also available in all sorts of diameters, metal rings can be tricky to put on and take off as, unlike other kinds of cock rings, the user has to wait until they’re no longer erect before they can be comfortably removed. Not that metal cock rings aren’t fun — many people find their weight and inflexibility an extra-hot turn-on.
💋 Adjustable: As their name suggests, adjustable cock rings are fitted with snaps, Velco, or other quick-release mechanisms so they can be tightened, loosened, or, in case things get uncomfortable, removed quickly.
💋 Vibrating: Ever want to mix all of a cock ring’s arousing possibilities with the erotic thrills of a vibrator? A vibrating cock ring might be just what you’ve been waiting for. Besides, if their vibrator fails to get your motor revving, you can still have a blast with just its ring. Win-win!
How to Size a Cock Ring
More than ready to sample the extra-hot pleasures cock rings might give you but stuck on trying to figure out what size is going to be right for you and your penis?
First, choosing the correct size is not to be taken lightly. Too large, and it won’t be enough to reduce your penis’ blood flow, so it won’t give you all those sexy benefits we mentioned previously. Annoying, sure, but what’s potentially worse is choosing something too small, running the risk of possibly injuring your precious penis.
Don’t worry; picking the best size is as easy as buying the F-61: 3 Piece Cock Ring Set and giving the largest ring a shot. If it’s not tight enough, proceed to the middle ring and so forth.
What your cock ring is made of is also worth a thought or two. Personally, we recommend going with body-safe silicone and adjustable models, which generally aren’t too tight, rather than steel, which, as I mentioned, can be challenging to take off.
You can also circle a tape measure around the base of your penis and behind your testicles. Take that number and subtract anywhere from half an inch to an inch — for newbies, we suggest a half-inch until you get used to how cock rings feel.
How tight should a cock ring be?
Ideally, cock rings should make your cock slightly numb. If at any point the area around the ring becomes painful, gets irritated, or has any other troubling sensation, take the ring off immediately. Occasionally, people may have a reaction to latex, silicone, or other materials, so never try to tough it out. Cock rings are supposed to be pleasurable, and anytime they’re not, they should be taken off immediately.
How to Put on a Cock Ring
Alright, you’ve got your cock rings, you know what to expect, and you’re ready to roll. So, let’s talk about how to put on a cock ring — and just as importantly, how to take it off. If you’re using a stretchy silicone or latex ring, a little pubic hair trimming can save you some, uh, unpleasant moments later. Trust me on this one.
💋 Get it ready: Stretch the ring wide enough to comfortably slip your penis through.
💋 Position it right: Slide the ring down to the base of your penis, where it meets your body. Now, here’s the tricky part: you can either slip it behind your testicles, or, if they’re being shy, gently guide them in front of the ring.
💋 Check for comfort: Make sure the ring feels snug but not too tight. Adjust its position if needed, and definitely free any stray hairs that got caught. Ouch!
If you’re struggling to get it on or find a comfortable fit, lube is your friend. A good dollop of a high-quality, body-safe lubricant like La Nua will make things much smoother. Avoid anything that might irritate your skin — we’re going for pleasure, not pain!
Are cock rings safe?
So, are cock rings safe? The short answer is yes, when used correctly. But like anything that involves a bit of, shall we say, constriction, there are a few things to keep in mind. The biggest risk? Using a ring that’s way too tight. That can seriously mess with the delicate tissues of your penis. Not good.
Here’s the golden rule: right size, right time. Stick to rings that fit comfortably, and don’t leave them on for more than 30 minutes at a stretch.
Note: If you have diabetes, cardiovascular disease (especially if you’re on blood thinners), any nervous system disorders, or a groin injury, you should probably refrain from playing with cock rings.
The Bottom Line
Of all the sex toys available, from super high-tech toys to good old-fashioned vibrators, not many are capable of matching the simplicity, effectiveness, and potential thrills c-rings can deliver.
When used safely (read: not excessively tight or too ill-fitting), the effect of slightly altering the flow of blood into and out of the wearer’s penis can take the stress out of getting and staying hard, reduce sensitivity, and even delay orgasm and ejaculation.